Whether or not a woman chooses to submit in a relationship has to do with her finances as well as narratives imposed upon her race — Jeannie Mai ignited an impromptu gender war when she announced that she wanted to “submit” to her soon-to-be husband, rapper Jeezy, during an episode of The Real. “I’m a very dominant woman,” she explained to her fellow castmates, “so when I come home, I like the idea that my man…