Ayesha Khalid
Jul 28, 2017 · 2 min read

How to win Friends and Influence people

After a deep reading of a book named “How to win friends and influence them” by Dale Carnegie I have learned that by showing interest in people through our activities or actions even by our talk we can win more friends.

Because people usually interested in themselves rather than us. They more likely want to hear about them and it also depends on that how much we show concern about them they become more friendly to us.

After applying this strategy in real life, my friends have amazing reactions some take this much interest in their life as negatively. They thought that i am trying to know the secrets of their live which they don’t want to share.

But some are amazing which we called our best friends they smoothly answering my questions and wondered that how this positive change occurs in my nature because it seems to be a positive plus point in any person when he/she know that how to bear or listen someones talk rather than to our’s.

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