PinnedHow I lost friends and alienated peopleI transformed myself from an influencer to a sexual deviant by just asking the wrong questions — This morning, I go about my preparation to be a good citizen and content creator; I check that my social media accounts all connect. I clicked my Instagram link on my Youtube account, only to realise that my Instagram account does not exist. Not on google, not on Instagram. …White Fragility20 min readWhite Fragility20 min read
Jan 23How I spoke to white people about racism without speaking about racism?Bypassing white fragility and defensiveness through sex — My Film With Andrei (2021) was a response to the explosion of Asian hate crimes during the pandemic. In my discussions with white people, this has wholly drifted into the periphery — overshadowed by the towering weight of the pandemic itself…White Fragility4 min readWhite Fragility4 min read
Jan 23The Fall & the Triangle of SadnessExploring the triangle of Shame, Pride and Sadness — Ruben Östlund’s Triangle of Sadness (2022) exemplifies the Judge-Penitent, borrowed from Camus’ book, the Fall. Or, more simply, shame-pride. …Cinema3 min readCinema3 min read
