Azeez Qudus
6 min readAug 27, 2023

How Do You Recognize Your Potential

An Extract from the book by Azeez Qudus

The personal potential is all about hard work and strategy.

Here are tips that wil guide you
1. Identify Your Inner Voice
The first step towards success is to listen to yourself; Bear in mind that you’renot looking for your potential here but only figuring out what you truly want in life. Your potential is ultimately what you work for. Thus, it’s best to work for the things that you desire so that you enjoy the process.
Think of the things that you enjoy or would want to be good at. Do you aspire to be a fashion designer, for instance? Would you love to be a politician, even though you’ve never rule a family before? Please make a list of your desired wishes and then downsize it realistically. It matters to keep your inner voice in mind while doing so. Don’t aim for things that may improve your image in society, bring you a lot of money, etc. Remember: your self-satisfaction needs to be a top priority. Similarly, there’s a chance that you’re great at something but despise doing it. Say, people around you love your voice and are always ready to hear you sing. However, there’s a chance you hate it despite the elaborate appreciation. Things like this should also be noted down so you can recall that you want to stay away from them.

2. Make Conscious Efforts
Once you’ve planned a suitable final destination, it’s time to make an effort.
I’ve said it before, and I’ll repeat it: your personal potential will not come waltzing into your life. You have to work hard to get to it.Understanding your potential requires conscious efforts in the right direction. It won’t just click one day randomly; you have to work to find the answers.
You may start experimenting now. You know that you want to either have a law firm or own a restaurant. These are two very different career choices, so take smal steps in one direction and figure out if this is something you’re willing to put your energy and time into.
As an example, since you can’t decide between being a chef and becoming a lawyer, you try the former first. Even after six months of showing consistent effort, though, you keep overcooking your food. When you ask your friends to taste it, they hardly ever give you positive feedback. Despite following the same recipe every time, your dishes taste different every time.
You’ve put in six months in this craft and tried hard enough to make a decent meal, but there’s no sign of improvement. Of course, you need to take it a sign that cooking is most likely not the right choice for you. You can then work towards your other option. Discuss the situation with experienced lawyers, get internships, research about it online, and find out whether you’ve got what it takes to build a successful law firm.

3. Define Your Goals
SMART goals play an essential roe in your life, especially when you want to accomplish somethingDefining goals will help you stay on track to understand your potential.

At this point, you’ve already figured out which route to take. It’s now time to take systematic steps.
Assuming you know the smart goals and how to devise them, you need to add some additional steps to the process. With every goal, define your intention. Please take note of whatever you think you’re aiming for and the reason behind it. For example, your intent behind joining an SEO training workshop is perhaps to improve your readership so that you can accomplish your passion for running a world-famous blog one day.
Next, write down the value. What will this particular workshop do for you that you cannot gain from other similar sources?
In the example above, the workshop may be facilitated by a person you’ve always been inspired by or is mainly for the niche that you prefer.
Lastly, think about the cost. Whatever input you has to give for achieving the value and fulfilling your intent, bring it to the table at this point. While you shouldn’t be working at a loss, you must be able to generate at least the same amount of money by implementing what you have learned, primarily if you’re paying $50 for a workshop.

4. Set Milestones
One mistake that a lot of people make in hopes of understanding their potential is aiming for the stars in the first go. They set their mind on the bigger picture and directly go for it. That’s not how you get successful. As mentioned above, it’s the baby steps that take you to your destination. Yes, it may extend the timeframe of the entire journey, but it also increases the chances of having a practical outcome with minimal hurdles.
When you set milestones, try to break down the long-term process into smaller segments. So, if you’re passionate about developing an advertising agency, don’t put your focus on the fina picture alone. For your first milestone, therefore, you can enrol in a media school where you can earn all the basics of advertising. After that, you may work for an agency to familiarize yourself with their process. Then, get in touch with a local videographer to create an ad for a relative’s business.
Step by step, you pave the way to your big goal. You can work on the weekly or monthly milestones that may end up contributing to the bigger picture when you divide the workload.

5. Accept Failures
Bear in mind that you’re only getting started. Even though this is your passion, you can’t possibly be perfect at it immediately. Failures and inconveniences are part of every success story. It’s alright to have some unexpected issues here and there. Don’t let them demotivate you. Failing does not mean that you have to shift your path. It only means you’re learning more, and that will eventually help you grow beyond limits.

6. Celebrate Your Successes
It is also vital to be very appreciative of yourself. It will keep your spirits high throughout the minor mishaps. The secret is to celebrate the little successes. Every time you accomplish a milestone, pat yourself on the back. Track your litte achievements so that you can remember them every time you feel down and need encouragement. Understanding your potential and unleashing your inner voice isn’t that hard. It requires strong willpower, patience, and baby steps in the right direction.

7. Acceptance
Self actualise individuals are more open and accepting than those who have yet to realize their full potentials. They can communicate emotions freely and in an authentic manner. This leads to deeper and more meaningful relationships with other people.

8.Not being controlled by emotions
Self realized people are not controlled by their emotions. Realization teaches who embrace it how to observe, face and overcome their emotions. Actualization teaches how to gain insight into their emotions and become efficient at handling fear,anxiety, loneliness and other emotions that hold them back.

9. A sharper focus
Those who embrace realization are in touch with their true self and work according to their deepest ideals and values. They can define their goal and pursue them with more vigour and sharper focus. Self realized people quickly eliminate toxic influences from their ives, freeing up space for the good touch.

10. Higher Confidence and self esteem
Individuals on the path of self realization are connected to their inner selves and world around them on a profound level. The depth and strength of the connection can free those worries, fears and feelings of unworthiness. Also it lets them harness their full potential.

HOW DO YOU USE YOUR POTENTIAL?

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