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What was your relationship with your brother like historically? I think if your family is dysfunctional (like mine) and you have never been close to your siblings (like me) then maybe she is getting some information about you from his end.

If this is total projection and you guys are close, then I think another talk with your brother about being hurt you are excluded from his life is probably warranted. You could also see if things settle down after the wedding.