Beautiful article and well done.
Some of these assholes go so far as to even buy the long-suffering girlfriend an engagement ring without EVER setting a date just to keep her around!
The women who break my heart are the ones that give these creeps children while they are "waiting" for their special day. One of my good friends did this and he got married alright just not to her. Women need to leave these dudes alone.
In the black American community, we have a very low marriage rate as it is so this may be one of the reasons we do! That old saying about not buying the cow when you can get the milk for free may have some truth to it after all.