No, no. You’ve given ample evidence that you are seeing the complexity of this problem.

Yeah, i gotcha. But do you hear me saying, the inner Feminist / Queer / LGBT*i*Q dialog is deeply self-reflective, almost to a fault, and it takes a bit of self-restraint not to resent a straight dude, how ever well-meaning of justified, trying to tell Feminist / Queer / LGBT*i*Q theorists and activist where he thinks we missed the point, and that there are dumdums in this world some of whom also happen to be Feminist / Queer / LGBT*i*Q theorists and activists, or that any or all of us could possibly lack empathy with y’all. Can you imagine that under the circumstances a person might feel mansplained?