Heartbreak.
Heartbreak can come in many different forms, whether it be from a friendship, a relationship, a family member, losing a job, losing someone close to you or even just being proved right when you wanted to be wrong.
Thing is you need to trust your gut feeling, when you think something doesn’t feel right, the majority of the time.. something is wrong.
People change and move on, and sometimes you’re not always in their plan. It hurts, but you need to see the positive side of it. If they’re willing to move on without you, you obviously didn’t mean that much to them, and they shouldn’t to you. Stop trying to force these relationships because if they’re not working now, they won’t in the future.
Heartbreak makes you stronger as a person. You hit these low points but once you come out of the other side you see how much you’re really worth and how much better off you are.
Losing someone you love, whether it be in the absolute worst way, or just a friendship or relationship coming to an end.. you WILL be okay.
People become more selfish as they get older, only thinking about number 1, which is completely fine, but when they put others in front of their so called ‘close friends’ that’s when you have to start questioning their loyalty.
As you do get older the one thing I’ve learnt is that I’d much rather a couple of really good friends, than a group of people who are struggling to get on, and have to be forced to spend time with one and other. I have some really good people around me and wouldn’t change them for the world.
True colours come out and it does break your heart to know that someone who was once so close to you, is now just a memory.. but if those memories are good you have them to look back on, and sometimes that can mean more than holding onto a rough friendship.
Basically, heartbreak is a part of life, sadly more and more people will eventually move on.. with or without you, and you’ll realise who you should focus on when that does happen.
Don’t throw away an amazing friendship or relationship with someone to try and hold onto a group of people that won’t do the same for you.
Hold on to the things that are important, sometimes it takes losing a lot to realise what you really have. People aren’t there forever, nothing’s here forever, but you can keep memories forever if you make them with the right people.
Heartbreak is horrible. But when you realise how much you’re worth and how many more important things you have in your life, that too will become just a memory.
