‘I would dye my hair blonde for you’

No no no no no no no no. Just no. A million times no. It’s all well and good doing something that someone else likes, but don’t go changing yourself for someone just to make them happy. Please !!!

I’ve had this song stuck in my head all day (I can’t for the life of me think of the name! But if you do… please message me or leave a comment, its bugging me) and it got me thinking… theres so many people out there that change themselves just to make someone else happy. To me this is ridiculous.

Taking suggestions and trying something new for someone is fine, but you have to stand up for yourself if you don’t like it, don’t ever let someone mould you into something they want, if they have to do that, then it’s quite obvious they’re not the person for you, and you’re not the person for them.

If anything, they’re making you their puppet. Deciding what you look like, what you can and can’t do, making your decisions for you, and that’s no way to live a happy life.

The only person you should be doing these things for is you, you’re the creator of your own life, you don’t need someone else turning you into something and someone you’re not.

Always be in control, never lose yourself to someone else, and always be you. Always.