When you look like me, you get an odd insight into the average male American psyche.
Oliver “Shiny” Blakemore

what do men want? women find men pretty mysterious too. I’ve been with one who’s been a wannabe hermit for 45 years or so — not easy for a guy to do this when he’s living with a woman and raising kids.

when we met, he was an art student with a big interest in horse tranquilizers. then he quit and was a cop for 30 years. now he’s crazy about walking dogs in the woods off leash.. and driving places to have coffee. usually with me.

what price individuation?