Thank you so much.
It took me 44 years to see myself through the eyes of a man whose “potential” was actively producing results in his life.
Like me, he has an eye toward the future in meaningful ways. Not dreamy but very practical.
He values education, has a PhD, and encourages anyone to exert the discipline required to get the paper.
He is a saver and will not depend on Social security in his retirement.
“Potential” is a great attribute to possess during childhood but when the rubber meets the road, a grownup, regardless of gender, behaves with honor, integrity, a sense of responsibility for self and others.
It wont put food on the table, pay bills or contribute to a fulfilling life.