I have a tendency to think about all of my relationships in terms of “ what can I bring to this?”

As you may imagine, we each have something to give to fellow human beings.

Most of the time, the least I can do is offer a non-judgmental ear, a hug, words of encouragement….in short, my languages of love.

There are days, however, when I feel I have NOTHING to give and my energy level is zapped.

It is on days such as these that I take extra care of myself. This often looks like simply vegging out with knitting projects, watching my cat sleep or toss around her toys.

I might read, write, sleep, phone a friend…however the spirit moves me.

Finally, there are people who do not want what I offer. They are not wrong or in some way deficient. They just are.

In these instances, I remain OK.

CAVEAT: This political cycle has been exquisitely challenging in terms of maintaining the peace and acceptance which usually define my life. I have ranted and raved with the best of the best. If I have been less than kind, I apologize.

In all things …..BALANCE!