They/Them : What’s really good…?

Beloveds,

We have a problem.
Come sit, stay awhile… I have something to say…

First, not many of you know this but due to recent events I can’t stay quiet anymore…

*throws glitter* I AM A PANSEXUAL TRANS NONBINARY BLACK FEMME…

Now that I have your attention. .. here goes…

There are many like me wading the waters of their identities just trying to be , name & express themselves to true form. I’ve watched this passed week with all the discussion going on with yalls president supposedly banning Trans people from the military , Charlamane n’nem acting a fool as usual and all this debate around Trans folks dating / disclosure. 
I watched as my alleged family/ friends made violent comments about people who are like me. I read notification after notification of people blaming the deaths of black Trans women on them. I listen to people call Trans men “deceptive ” . I heard people say that nonbinary people’s identity is a demonic mental illness…

“This is an lgbt issue not a black one”
“I don’t advocate for transgenders to be murdered but…” 
[Insert transphobic trash joke]
[Insert misgendering] 
[Insert cis tears]

You get it… 
I’ve been so afraid of coming out for this specific reason. You want ppl to disclose but your own Trans family and friends don’t even feel safe around you. I would say y’all need to be mindful of what you say because someone you love is listening but honestly forget allat … you don’t care and that’s fine I suppose ….just know you’ve been peeped.

This is just a notice 
In case I haven’t made myself clear enough. …
If you in anyway shape or form , passively or aggressively advocate for the harm or murder of Trans ppl gon’ ahead and never speak to me agian…

If you in your heart of hearts believe Trans people are “deceptive ” in nature…. TO THE LEFT TO THE LEFT

IF YOU’RE DOWN WITH FORM OF RACISM HOMOPHOBIA TRANSPHOBIA ABLISIM CLASSISM MISOGYNY SEXISM ANTI SEX WORKER ETC…. EXIT MY SPACE IMMEDIATELY!(I’m probably leaving something out but you get it)

Don’t invite me to do reiki at your trash ass “spiritual ” Cis-ter circles…
Don’t ask me to watch your bad ass kids no more…
Don’t ask me to sacrifice my peace of mind so that you’re comfortable… 
Don’t ask me to bring nothing for the cookout …

Just bounce…

*adjusts bowtie * I just needed to get that off my chest …

#Reclaimingmytime 
#MyNonbinaryIsBeautiful 
#DontStartNoneWontBeNone 
#PutSomeRespeckOnMyPronouns
#TheyThem