What are some mind games that narcissists play?
Am sorry you saw it that way. It's a mind fuck because we used to lack the knowledge and mechanism of how they function or behave with their toddler instincts that failed to grow into something called emotional intelligence.
“So let's set things clear, they are not smart as you think, At least not in this relationships thing”.
Let's take a deeper look for what's happening inside, in fact, for someone who is unable to feel or bond or generate positive emotions by himself and let's call him (James bond) who can not bond, and you are pussy galore from the Goldfinger movie.
James is a hollow person who feeds on other people's emotions, and doesn't even know what's is love, what is it like to maintain positive constant emotions towards anything because James has no object constancy. And when you ask James about himself he will tell you that he's great, he's fine, he's amazing, he's fabulous, he's fucked……he can't feel, he's having a fake facade generated, false self to get all the needs met, James couldn't learn to love, and how to love, but he needed it so bad, just like anyone else.
Mindfuck number - 1
Dear pussy, you have some pretty good qualities, greater than your flashy name, you have great qualities that's is too attractive and delicious for James, so he approached you and mirrored you, but James who is controlling, manipulative, and emotionally, psychologically, and/or physically abusive follows a similar pattern as a classic abuser.
The sad fact is, that you have fallen in love with yourself because this person is mirroring you like a parrot. S/he is learning your strengths and weaknesses and all about your insecurities. Mirroring your likes and your dislikes and even agreeing with everything you say is a tactic a narcissist uses to falsely charm you and help them determine what source of supply you will be able to provide them with, sex, money, status, cover, financial.
With that being said, James was mirroring you because that was his plan to abuse you emotionally from the beginning.
To fake love that was never there is a passive-aggressive thing, it's intentional, and it was meant to make you submissive.
Mindfuck number-2
Dear pussy, I know you're giving too much, you're giving it all actually, as you think you found the perfect t match, and the sex was over the roof, now you're done, like a turkey. You're drained and he's taking it all, absorbing you and it's all about him.
This show is all about James bond who can not bond, who is self-absorbed, entitled, not his fault, never his mistake, all about him. So tension starts to build. Subtle “suggestions for improvement”. Criticism. Public humiliation.
And now the movie is called pussy walking on eggshells. You will lose your self here, lose your self-respect as you're not protecting your boundaries, and guess what? He will mirror that.
Mindfuck number-3
Dear pussy, he is cheating on you, as he's bullying you right now, and using you, in case you heard new vocabularies from him, be sure he's mirroring someone new. Because James will shift the blame on you for the relationship failure so he's looking for someone new.
Mindfuck number-4
James feeling the loss now, and you're not under his control, he will hoover you back, just to make sure that you're his toy. So James will go calm again he will apologize and makes Makes excuses. James will act as if it never happened.
Mindfuck number-5
Pussy will go wet, and tell herself to act better, and help James or save him, or tolerate his shit, or put up with his Mindfuck.
Mindfuck number-6
James Bond who cannot a bond will shorten his abusive cycle the next time and he will go from 1-2-3-4-5 faster and fake it for the next hundred years unless you're were hitten by a car and died, or he discarded you, or you found quora by coincidence.
Back to the question: James bond will never take responsibility after discard, but will mindfuck you by a smear campaign, like the cherry on top, and he will walk away happy with his new supply as if you never exist because he is the James Bond who can not bond.
And let's face it I think he was cheating with M the whole time……. Just saying.
Bassel Chibani.
