What screams "I'm a narcissist"?
Your trauma bonds and nothing else.
To talk about narcissist in general, they are people who can not feel what's wrong with them, they just don't see it, and probably they are taking much pride of their “cruelty and lack of empathy” but am sure they will put it in terms of strong personality or something stupid like “everybody is stupid and I am the special misunderstood person here”.
You're asking how to spot a narcissist, right? Google can answer this, not a big deal.
How to spot your narcissists while you're wasting your life with him/her?
Am afraid there is not, and for many its already too late to talk about the “how to spot” because you are already involved and invested time, money, life, home, shared kids and so on.
How insidious…..
Tbh. If this is your first time, you can not, and if your second time “you can not know” you can do it forever and you will never know. The dangerous part about narcissism is when they believe whom they pretend to be, they can be anyone, and they will come in many shapes; heroes, white knights, saviors, supermen, batmen, jokers, Clint Eastwood, Yul Brynner, sexy officer, construction guy, doctor, poor little kitty, John Travolta…
The only thing that screams I am a narcissist is the summation of his bullshit,Lovebombs, devaluation, discards, lies, lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies lies, pathological lies, compulsive Lies, hovering, stubbornness, neediness, fucking I need a cheerleader 24/7/365, I love you, I hate you, I need you, I wanna kill you, help me, save me, fuck me, stay away from me …………….
But after it's too late………and No, you will never know unless you're tangled up already, hooked,attached, trauma bonded and fucked up.
The only thing that screams he is a narcissist is your trauma bonds………
Lets face it, no one came to this life is prepared for this, we are raised on a belief that says we only reap what we sow, no one told me that I will water a plant and It will spit shit in my face, but when you feel like you're used like a tool, dumped like a dirtbag, and your partner walked as if nothing happened.
Something wrong with you both, because you're still missing him and he doesn't give a fuck about you, you will see Nightmares, panic attacks, breathing problems, anxiety, stress, sleeping problems, grieving…. And lots of shit…this is the only evidence I am afraid.
And if you're done from all this shit, guess what? There is one more of in your home, he fucking raised you.
Back to the question :
info about narcissists are all over the internet, Google them and you will get it, but trust me it almost impossible for you to spot them while you’re inside the system, wait for your discard or until they are done with you like a dinner and then you don’t have to ask this question, instead you will lecture about it in Cambridge University.
