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Allison Wolters Baxley

Pieces of Me…

Twenty-five years ago, I was a young fearless woman with confidence. I had dreams and goals in life. I was secure in myself and was not…

Oct 13

Pieces of Me…

Oct 13

What I have gained since cutting off the narcissist

I have been thinking about how different my life is now that I have rid myself of the abusive and controlling narcissist with whom I spent…

Sep 17

What I have gained since cutting off the narcissist

Sep 17

Processing Betrayal Trauma

It feels like anger, but isn’t…

Jun 29

Jun 29

Abuser Accountability: Reevaluating Advice

Why are we encouraged to walk away and not look back? Why does every advice article related to narcissistic abuse tell victims to forget…

May 18

Abuser Accountability: Reevaluating Advice

May 18

Anger: What is Left After the Abuser is Gone

What do you do with all the anger left in you after a relationship with a narcissist? I have asked this question to both of my therapists…

May 14

Anger: What is Left After the Abuser is Gone

May 14

RAGE: The Narcissist’s Sledgehammer

TRIGGER WARNING This article discusses traumatic forms of abuse

May 1

RAGE: The Narcissist’s Sledgehammer

May 1

Narcissists Abandon Their Children

They use their kids to control their spouse

Apr 15

Apr 15

Living in Fear

Tachycardia (increased heart rate), rapid shallow breathing, and sweaty palms are just a few of the symptoms produced when your body enters…

Apr 7

Living in Fear

Apr 7

The Right to Write

Do I have the right to tell my own story?

Mar 25

The Right to Write

Mar 25

The Toxicity of Scorekeeping

If you have been in a relationship with an emotionally immature person or a narcissist, then you may know about scorekeeping. This is one…

Mar 21

The Toxicity of Scorekeeping

Mar 21

Allison Wolters Baxley

Allison Wolters Baxley

Mother and small farmer. Animal and nature lover. Recently gained my freedom after 22 years of abuse at the hands of a covert narcissist. Opinion Writer.

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