Yes to all of this. For all of the times I have been told I am destroying my son’s life by working. For all of the frowns my husband gets from male co-workers for being diligent about attending all pediatrician appointments (how dare he be an involved father). And also for the times people asked me if I ate tomatoes or eggplant during my pregnancy that ended in a miscarriage (because tomatoes are obviously toxic for pregnant women?!). Thank you for writing this!