belenenall social media becomes blogging: digital storytellingI love how all social media, if it encourages group conversations and lives long enough, becomes blogging: digital storytelling. Whatever…Apr 16, 2022Apr 16, 2022
belenenFeeling bad about harm you caused is not a mark of a good person.Guilt is not necessary for goodness, and doesn't usually create goodness either.Aug 15, 20173Aug 15, 20173
belenenmyth: how the Godde of water & the forest children saved the people from the Fear god & his priestsJun 23, 2017Jun 23, 2017
belenenHow I hear with CAPD: everything is mondegreens and listening to words is constant translation workJun 4, 2017Jun 4, 2017
belenenWhy making it safe & comfortable to say ‘no’ is as necessary as respecting ‘no’May 6, 2017May 6, 2017
belenenmental illness as a personal monster: being a responsible monster-keeperApr 29, 2017Apr 29, 2017
belenenrelationship anarchy: we each only do what we want / my intentions & desires in all connectionsI read an article by joreth the other day that got me thinking about how I have never posted about my identity as a relationship anarchist…Sep 10, 2016Sep 10, 2016
belenenFindings Friday: increased experience as a racial minority increases empathy for majority raceZuo and Han (2013) measured relative empathy responses for Chinese people who had lived in the US most of their lives using a series of 48…Sep 9, 2016Sep 9, 2016
belenenwhy I call myself an erotic mirror: I do not have intrinsic desire for any role in sexI don’t call myself a switch, because 1) that implies a binary where I choose to either be one or the other but I can’t merge them, which…Sep 8, 20161Sep 8, 20161