Telling a woman who’s uncomfortable during sex “let me finish” is never ok — I went almost 2 decades before losing my virginity, but that’s not to say I wasn’t horny from a young age. As far back as 12, I remember touching myself on a regular basis. That being said, I took care of myself before I had anyone else help me. When…

The secret to spice up your sex life — Making porn with your partner is the perfect way to spice up your sex. With that being said, it takes a great deal of trust and consent between both participants. …

And how I learned to not let sex define me — Sex was always something I wanted as a teenager, but it also terrified me. I never held on to my virginity like it was precious, but I always told myself, “When someone is actually interested in me, then I’ll have sex”. The ball was always in my court but finding…

Seriously, grow up. — I’m fed up with being told periods are “gross”. This isn’t to bash men, I’m simply telling you my experiences as a human with a uterus, who doesn’t appreciate your negative comments. Granted, this isn’t all men, but you know who you are if you’re reading this. The lack of…

How I discovered the joy of feet play as a woman. — I used to cringe if a guy brought up he had a foot fetish. I’d be immediately turned off, but oh boy, I had no idea what I was missing out on. The instant dismissal of the fetish was probably because I didn’t think women could be turned on by…

How the media lied to you, and my journey to self-love and acceptance — I always had a bad relationship with my lady bush. Shaving down there was always a challenge for me. I’d get nicks, and It would feel incredibly itchy afterward, to the point where sex didn’t feel good anymore. …

Health care barriers and social distancing make this experience even harder to navigate — but you have more supporters than you even know — Motherhood was never something I gave much thought to. As an 18-year-old still putting my life together, that was the last thing I wanted. I’ve always been in tune with my body. When my period was four days late, I knew something was wrong, but I waited. …