Why you shouldn’t bring men you’re dating around your kids.

Bella
Bella
Jul 22, 2017 · 2 min read
umm..mom who is he??

If you are a single mom and dating please leave that private unless you and that person are serious. You are still figuring this new person out. Your child comes first and their safety is most important. Bringing new people around your kids can leave them to vulnerable rape, sexual assault, bad habits, or feeling less than important to the person you’re dating. They may seem all your attention is on this “new guy”. Also you never know if this guy is a total creep.

Always look for the signs ! Teach your kids EARLY about good touch, bad touch. Good touch, bad touch is basically a lesson you give your kids on who and how a touch can be bad or good. For example, good touch is mommy giving you a bath and bad touch is another kid or adult touching your privates. Even if a guy isn’t touching your child, is your child comfortable around them? A child shouldn’t feel out of place in their own home. Kids get vibes too!

Is this new person you’re dating even a kid friendly person? If they are not uplifting or bettering you child why are they there? Don’t be selfish, if you are just dating around for “benefits” please keep them away from your impressionable child.

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