1. Instead of searching for that one special loving relationship, bring as much love as you can into all your relationships.
An Open Letter to Anyone Looking for Love
Zach Beach

Yes Zach, well said. And in my half a century now of experience, might I add one step simpler. 1+1=1, One, Very Very Big ONE

The plural you refer to sooner or later Be-comes (comes to Be) Singular. Encompassing all and leaving nothing and no-One out.