Be Uncomfortable
Hunter Hawks may seem reclusive and self-absorbed, but for a reason. According to Institutional Research, more than half of undergraduates reside outside of Manhattan: most of this cohort live in the boroughs and some beyond, having to commute daily. Not reflected in statistics are those engaged in an internship and/or working one, two, or three jobs. Therefore, commuting, and juggling academics, work, and every other aspect of life can alienate us from one another.
Do not let this deter you from meeting and mingling with new people. Make most of the time you and your classmates spend on campus. Be uncomfortable existing in your comfort zone. Be uncomfortable by introducing yourself to another Hunter Hawk while in class or walking through the sky-walks. Consider joining recreation and student clubs. Attend Convocation and the Hunter Street Fair/Mid-Day Carnival, where you will meet new friendly faces. Before then, you can reach out to the Office of Student Activities — Hunter North C002 and the Undergraduate Student Government — Hunter North 121, among others, about culture and community at Hunter College.
Ask For Help
Do not be shy to ask for information, clarification, and affirmation. Help is available for you, online and in-person. Peruse through the college’s website for answers to your questions, especially One Stop For Students. Join email listserv’s to receive news and updates via your myHunter account. Connect with Hunter College on social media: Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Flickr, Google+, and LinkedIn. Converse with your classmates on your Class group page on Facebook: search by typing a variation of “CUNY Hunter Class of…”, for example Hunter College Class of 2018. Furthermore, seek support from Student Services and from your professors regarding requirements, morale, and more. Speak with them, they will help you as best as possible.
Take Care
Our motto is “The Care of the Future is Mine”, so care for yourself and for others. Balancing school, work, family, and life can become overwhelming. To prevent burnout, secure time for your wellness and health. Consider being and having an “accountibilibuddy” — a portmanteau noun for accountable buddy — by holding one another accountable for personal and professional, curricular and extracurricular well-being. Remember that you are not alone and that people care about you.
Enjoy
Take a breather and enjoy this view. Moreover, explore beyond 68th Street. New York City is your campus. New Yorker’s are your classmates. Learn from them and learn from yourself. These days are the beginning of a better you and a brighter future. To do so, take ownership of your education, define and realize your aspirations, and most importantly, be you.
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