For people seeking hollow symbolism of happiness, losing time trying to save some for later will fall into this perpetual cycle. For those who learned to live for the present moment and be the best version of themselves every instant, identity does not come from entourage, but from within. I’m a man, white? Sure, but that’s not my fault and I refuse any privilege you will accuse me of receiving from others I couldn’t care less about. Sadly, there’s a lot more of the former, the solution is for those people to stop chasing unicorns and look deep down inside with courage and honesty. The PoC and Women of this world will then become simply people, one of us, cause we all really are the same when it all comes down to what matters. I know this, do you?