Every time I have seen the term used it has been to describe violent, volatile, power hungry sexist men. I am definately not attracted to any of that and neither are most women I know. When I do come across a rare woman who wants to be with a “man” who is strong and throws her on the bed and takes the lead, she also constantly talks about how all the men she meets are afraid of commitment. She also tends to mention hoe thr men she dates show signs of mental illness. Gee I wonder why? Aggressive “manly” men don’t date seriously. And I don’t understand the attraction to them. They’re repulsive to me. I’ve always been attracted to gentle, soft spoken, kind, and baby faced men.