Small Talk

Berkay ŞAHİN
Sep 9, 2018 · 2 min read
“mountain with clouds” by Rémi Jacquaint on Unsplash

Small talk is defined as “ conversation about things that are not important, often between people who do not know each other well. ” on Cambrigde Dictionary. Also, it’s key to improve a new relationship. I had experienced that small talks are important for love. I have seen many consequences of these chats.

First of all, I bitterly learnt that there is no chance for a healthy relationship before getting know each other to understand your partner whether she/he is the one. I was abandoned about one month ago. Now I’m looking back and see that she wasn’t even into small talks on the phone/in meetings. I remember that I was desperately looking around to find something to talk about for breaking awkward silences. We had no common friends so there was only us to provide communication. It must be thought that “Can she/he be friend of mine except love issues?”.

Small talks seem simple, maybe waste of time. But I strongly believe that small talks are very important for the people who never know each other. It’s basic, easy and sometimes fun way to get to know each other. Recommendation for everyone, when you realize, there is even no small talks possible. Just Run Away ! You might think that you are in love or etc., but in the end you will suffer worse than breaking the bonds in the beginning.

Even a joke about the weather can indicate your new relationship!

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