It can be easy to lose yourself in the day to day, especially when you are on a role that is expected and easily accepted by society. I too have felt the sense of lack that comes with living a life that you were not built for. It helps to set a big goal for yourself — something that you get excited about — and then work toward that. Maybe it’s a side job, a new business, learning a ski. But you have to find a way to be yourself and to challenge yourself. Have a reason to get up every day and pour your energy into something you care about.