Attention v Pressure
I read a post today about how when this guy puts pressure on his girlfriend she tends to react in the opposite way that he intended and when he slows down and puts attention on her and the situation, things move more easily.
I have found this to be true recently for other areas including work projects. Anything you add pressure to just kind of jams, but when you add steady attention it blooms.
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