You give men an awful amount of power with this response. Men are responders. That means that the way men behave is the way women have trained them to behave. Men don’t think no means no because women don’t stick to their no’s. I promise you that when a man hear’s a no from me, he knows I mean no and acts accordingly. This is how we change the culture, not by acting like every man is a serial rapist. You are a prisoner to your fear and then other women end up being controlled by the general fear and we wonder where our power went.