I went to a trans support group once, years ago. There’d been a “transsexual women’s support group” before I went for surgery, and I’d found it helpful, but at this point I was post-op for a while and wasn’t going any more. But a friend of mine asked me to take a girl who had never been.
When I showed up, they’d gotten rid of the TS women’s support group and replaced it with a “transgender” support group. And there was a person there, who I’d read as female when I walked in, and who sounded female, but who introduced themselves as a “penile woman”. ::shudder:: Needless to say, I never went back, and neither did the young woman I’d brought there.