Bisexual BicyclistOn identity and relationshipsThis is a long-form exploration of my evolving identities and relationships over time, and the ways in which things in my childhood seem…Aug 13, 2019Aug 13, 2019
Bisexual BicyclistA platonic love storyThis is, in a way, a love-letter to my BFF. I’ve changed names and omitted identifying details to maintain anonymity.Feb 14, 2018Feb 14, 2018
Bisexual BicyclistAcademic Ableism and Class Privilege[Note: I made a thread about this on Twitter last Friday; this post is heavily based on that thread.]Oct 25, 2017Oct 25, 2017
Bisexual BicyclistImposter Syndrome and AnxietyI started grad school this fall, and I keep being afraid that I’m going to flunk out, that I’m not good enough, that I can’t do this. I…Oct 20, 2017Oct 20, 2017
Bisexual BicyclistMy relationship with misgenderingI have a slightly complicated relationship with my gender, but at this point I consider myself an AFAB enby.¹ Since I’m not “out” about my…Sep 18, 2017Sep 18, 2017
Bisexual BicyclistOn Privilege and VacationI went on a vacation last week, which was great! But it really got me thinking about my own privilege, and the privilege of the other…Aug 16, 2017Aug 16, 2017
Bisexual BicyclistQueer ducks flock togetherNames changed to protect anonymity.Aug 2, 2017Aug 2, 2017
Bisexual BicyclistApplying for grad schoolI decided mid-week last week that I wanted to explore the possibility of doing a Master’s degree sometime soon — I’d thought I might…Jul 25, 2017Jul 25, 2017
Bisexual BicyclistA complicated wedding anniversaryToday was Chris and my 5th anniversary. We didn’t really celebrate in a big way, although we did go on a trip earlier this month that we…Jul 23, 2017Jul 23, 2017
Bisexual Bicyclist“Divorce” is a scary wordNames changed to protect anonymity.Jul 10, 2017Jul 10, 2017