Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
~Things don’t go wrong and break your heart so you can become bitter and give up. They happen to break you down and build you up so you can be everything you were intended to be. ~
Trust that everything happens for a reason, even if you’re not wise enough to see it.
I strongly believe that we are in charge of our own destiny. Yes, bad things happen and sometimes there is nothing else we could do to make situation better or even stop them from falling apart. And when that happens, you have two options. You can either cry over your destiny and be unable to forget things that happend years ago, or you can accept things that happend and believe there was a reason behind it. To teach you, to shape you as a person, or just so other, better things could come along. By accepting things you can’t change, you are in charge of your own destiny, because you don’t allow bad circumstances to pull you down. Instead, you a just keep moving forward.
Believe your walking on a path and when you work hard and you try your hardest you are running. Every bad curcumstance is just a barrier on your way. Now, you can sit by it and ask yourself why bad things happen to you, cry a river, turn around and give up, or…Or you can find a way to get over it, take it as an experience and learn from it. Even if your past is still holding you back a bit, by fighting, you can still improve yourself and move forward instead of staying in one place your whole life. And when you don’t let bad things stop you on your way, you are in charge of your life. Because sometimes, you can’t change the circumstances, but they can’t make you desperate, make you give up and they can’t make you see things negatively, if you don’t let them. And that’s what ‘’ You are the reason things are the way they are for you.’’ is all about.
Don’t ruin a good day by thinking about a bad yesterday.
Accept & Let it go.
I know you have plans about your life and you have this vision about how things are supposed to turn out. And sometimes they don’t. Sometimes you do everything in your power, and you still fail. And it hurts like hell, I know.
I have a hard time accepting things I don’t like as well. I always had a picture in my head of how things are supposed to be. I was prepared to work hard for them and I expected good things to happend. I thought things will happen the way they are supposed to. And they did. But the problem was, things that happend often didn’t match with the picture in my head of how they are supposed to turn out.
°Things are the way they are. We suffer because we imagined them differently.
But after a while, when I got hurt over and over again, I learned something. When you work so hard and do everything that’s in your power and things turn out completely wrong, your conscience is clear and you can let go of things. Because at that point, things aren’t in your hands anymore. And when you accept that, you are calm and prepared to work with everything life throws at you.
The thing is, the more you dwell on things you can’t change, the more they hurt you. You give them the power to not only ruin your past, but also affect your future. And at that point, you are making your life a living hell. Once you realize bad things are behind you , you can focuse on your future and make the most out of it. So let them go. Things happend, you lived, you learned something from them, you became stronger and you are ready for things to become better again.
°Once you master the art of accepting things the way they are, life becomes easier.
Letting things go is good for you because they can’t hurt you anymore. When you’ll thing about them you won’t feel that pain in your heart anymore, you won’t be angry anymore and you will find peace in yourself. But you can do even more for yourself. You can take bad things that happend and turn them into something actually-not-that-bad-at-all.
We do that by accepting. Once we let go, we can go deepher into ourselves and see where we could do better, where we might made a little mistake and we learn from them. We must do that without overthinking, worrying and over- analysing everything that went wrong, because remember- we can’t change anything anymore. But we can use those bad things that happend and make our future better because of them. And with that, we got the most out of a bad situation.
When you’re going through hell, keep going.
Sometimes it seems like life just can’t give you a breake. And not for weeks or months, but years, even decades. And the most important thing to remember is not to give up.
Don’t even think about giving up as an option. When you want something as bas as you want to breath you must be willing to fight. Through everything. There isn’t anything in this world worth having that doesn’t require fighting for.
You can be sad, you can scream and you can cry. But do not give up. Because giving up can never be an option and it’s never the answer. When you get through bad times (and believe me, you will ) you will be so much stronger, happier and you will realize just how much you can do. So remember to welcome hard times in your life as well, because you can’t appreaciate good times without the bad moments.
°It’s okay, not to be okay. As long as you are not giving up.
Always push yourself until you make yourself proud and until you proved you can do a lot more then you expected. Don’t let other people or circumstances control you or your happines, because you are the one that must be in charge of your emotions and hold yourself together when everything seems to fall down. Use those bad times to get to know yourself better and to realize who in your life is helping you get up and who is pushing you down. Decide which people should stay in your life, and who are you better off without.
°An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward. So when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it’s means that it’s going to launch you into something great. So just stay focus and keep aiming.
Better times are comming, you just need to be patient enough end get through storm so you the sun can shine again. Accept good with the bad and remember…
******************************************************************Thank you so much for reading my blogs and even for recommending me to others! It means the world to me, and I’m so happy I started writting blogs because of you. Plus, writting makes me get some things of my chest. :) I want to apologize for two things: firstly, I’m sorry I haven’t written anything in a long time now ( I think it’s been about 3 weeks?). I had a bit of a difficult period, and I did’t have any inspiration to write. Don’t get me wrong, my life was still great as always and I’m so grateful for everything I have and for my opportunities, but I just needed to sort my life a little bit. But I’m back now, and that’s what inspired the blog I wrote today. I hope you like it. I would also like to apologize for my writting mistakes, as Fnglish is not my native language. But I bope you understood everything. :)
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