Become genuinely interested in other people
According to writer the dog is only animal which does nothing for you other than love as contrast to others like hen or cow that do something physically to live with you. During childhood his father purchased him a pretty dog that loved him very much and showed excitement when he saw him in the afternoon. This adorable relation continued only for five years and then one strategic night happened when his dog no more with him. He said being a divine instinct animal you did not read any psychology book. Due to your lovable nature you can make more friends in two months by being interested in them as compare to other people will get interest in you for two years duration. People who wigwag throughout their lives to make people interested in you made a great blunder. Because people are not interested in you and me, they are only in themselves which can be clarified by the study of New York telephone company as they noticed much more time the only pronoun “I”. If sometimes we succeeded in impressing people and they become interested in us but they would never be your best friends or real friends e.g Napoleon and Josephine who relied on each other. The editor of leading magazine told writer during his short course in New York University that he could pick the story and can tell about the authors whether or not he is interested in people. If he not, surely people will not interested in his magazine. Surely you have to be interested in people if you want to be successful. As the writer put the example of Mr. Thurston who was a dean of magicians. Basically he was runner from his school, did not read any book of magic but he was successful man in his work. The only reason for his achievement he was interested in people as compare to others. Sometimes when you took in people you may got something really good for your own personality, you won the relationship, connections and your nature fellows. Just like George Dyke who was retired and avoiding to be bore he started to play music at his field. Sooner due to his humble and friendly behavior he become famous and he met with great musicians, learned the background and their personalities. Due to his motto of being interested in people he become the country musicians know as “Uncle George”. By becoming genuinely interested in people we can win their time, cooperation and attention. A show of interest as with every other principles of human relations, must be sincere. It gives not only you interesting but also receives the attention. It is a mutual beneficial approach. The only principle is that if you want others to like you or you want to build real friendship or you wan to help yourself or others then you must should be genuinely interested in other people.
By applying the principle of genuinely interested in other people I made my existing relationship more strong and now i effectively make new friends that will be real or best and this relationship will long life. I am applying this rule on my Amal Academy class fellows and really helpful for me in making good friends and their appreciating response.