Don’t pose the question if the answer can’t change your mind
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“Real listening is a willingness to let the other person change you.” — Alan Alda.

Great post — if someone pretends to be willing to change, and then doesn’t change, it becomes clear pretty quickly that they weren’t really willing in the first place.

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