It’s about others
Don’t you think that is a paradox of being a human? We’re individual creature and social creature at the same time.
To let one of the force become so much stronger by let alone the other one behind,-causing instability. It’s not a life. To counter-balance these 2 opposing forces is what makes a life. Yet, this is one of the hardest thing to do.
But, just make sure to make others feel important and being respected because everyone deserve it (& everyone want it, too). To help and serve others as they had done the same for you. And it’s really good idea to remember all of things that have been given to you, to be grateful about it, to mention the favour from someone, to recall the goodness that had done to you. To say thanks and to appreciate them, because in the end of the day, it’s (also) about others, not always about yourself.
*credit to Simon Sinek