The Happiness of Flirting
just for F.U.N.
Based from my previous posts.. I been in a bad situation because of loving someone seriously. I thought I couldn’t be happy without him in my life.
I was wrong, I really do think that it’s all in the mind, “what mind can conceive, the body can achieve”. Yeah, right! I am enjoying my life right now when I decided to walk away from that person. It was never an easy process but glad I was able to do it.
Many things I’ve learned from that situation, from those memories that hunts me every now and then, from that guy. Well, let’s face it! Ironically, that would be the result of accepting the love you don’t DESERVE. Other hand, I started to become more mature the way how I perceive reality. If you can’t change it, acceptance is the key.
As I mentioned, I love my life right now. I find flirting as one of the diversions to forget and heal yourself. You can simply be outrageous of yourself and have fun to those people you meet and greet. I learned how to mingle with people well and I learned how to strike them with their weaknesses.
It’s really cool for me.. there’s no labeling, no commitment and no string attached whoever will play your game. Just for a moment you will feel the happiness though it’s just only that very moment. I never thought I could be this kind of person, I never thought I could be someone whom I didn’t expect to be. As I always say, Life is too short not to have fun. I kept reminding myself to back off from love and not to get hurt again. Not too attach with people and just enjoy every moment passes by. ☺