Between the things that I’ve read, trying to read between the lines of what intellects seem to be saying, autism and various other mental illnesses are essentially a series of nervous system instructions that result in a Behavioral Health that ends up cemented because of our confusion as a people as to what it means to be neurodivergent. We have a society that is not accepting of non con-formative brain types, boxing everybody into the wrong assembly lines thus creating mental illness. Our social delusions shape what it is we believe it means to be human

Please do an episode on collective conscious and social delusion by bringing in an evolutionary specialist, or a much deeper dive with our very own Dr. Robert Sapolsky of Stanford university

What. I don’t understand is why we are not telling parents that their children are actually neurodivergent and that they could have a Superhuman on their hands. Instead we listen to Society and believe some of the behaviors are par for the course. Can’t we teach parents that we can teach our children a new series of nervous system instructions and that this will result in altered behaviors? That neurodivergent children just need a little more regulation….

I don’t understand why we are not protecting these children and arming them with the knowledge that what they are is truly special and honing in on their gifts.

Is it possible that some individuals have extreme male and female brains? How much of this has to do with gender roles and how much of this has to do with nature is beyond my knowledge… However if we spend more time with neurodivergent children learning what each child is passionate about, where their brain is strong then when they are grown ups won’t they have a special skill set along with a way to regulate?

Teaching the parents of children with inappropriate behaviors as a result of their nervous system instructions that their kids need more regulation then other children in the homes (where part of the disregulation is happening) seems as though it could be beneficial for the family the country and the world.

Five brothers and one sister and I’m the only one that’s different… I needed more regulation, my parents could’ve benefited by understanding that my sensitivity my love of nature and my empathy where gifts, but only if I could learn how to regulate.

Had my love of music love of education love of nurturing, caregiving, teaching, learning and desires to understand the behaviors of others been honed in on perhaps I could of been a psychiatrist or psychologist, an educator a scientist, doctor, lawyer or perhaps a dancer or writer… I will never know, my time for obtaining a life long acquired skill set is gone and I must focus on what I do have in order to provide for my child and self. This is a love for people a love for education and a deep desire to change the world and influence anyone I can get my greedy hands on.

I do not have an autism diagnosis but I’m pretty sure that I’m neurodivergent. Of course only a professional could tell me for sure… I most certainly have had a dysregulation in many areas of my life and sensory seeking behaviors, much of which I have addressed throughout my adult life.

This was accelerated during my pregnancy, scrambling to make the changes in behaviors I had learned in my own childhood and then stumbling onto professor of Stanford university Professor Dr. Andrew Huberman along with a series of professionals he has interviewed offerings of College level education made in an accessible way for my rather shallow. education history…

It seems like the the terminology mental illness is prejudicial because it is not well understood as a series of coping mechanisms, received prejudicially, misunderstood

& that the appropriate verbiage is Neurodivergency with various phenotypes resulting in behavioral health concerns

Unless we are going to re-classify or better EDUCATE. on EXACTLY what the word autistic and other mental illness descriptions mean and teach people that these are just labels for a series of nervous system instructions resulting in unusual and at times inappropriate behavior and only permanent if we make it permanent then maybe we should abolish it from the human language…

Of course you cannot change the sensory seeking or the sensory sensitivity, The anxiety built into the nervous system developed in utero and youth or the OCD components, but recognizing that these are just a part of the Neurodivergent Brain may potentially serve us better.

Couldn’t we send in a specialist into somebody’s home to regulate the entire family? Through AI technology aligned with human interaction creating Ableism. Is it possible that the way that we as a society feed our children with dysregulation of feeding patterns Dysregulation of clothing patterns dysregulation of emotion expressions intense religiosity lack of access to outside worlds, that these things may be why we end up with children with cemented comorbidities? Could this be preventable?

How much of this has to do with the fact that Society needs two parents just to pay their bills? To live up to the status that we have convinced each other through confirmation bias as truth? Not only just to stay afloat but if anybody wants to get ahead in life and make a better life for their children based on this model their children will suffer in the end…

We are punishing middle class and below, making sure that they never get past middle-class or below… Though yes this certainly does happen to the rich as well, though their parents can pay their way into school and private hospitals addressing the issues that arise from a child not being raised in a regulated setting.

By not being given access to trade skills which allows the world to accept differences, are we creating a society of neurotic individuals? Dopamine seeking humans caught in a rat race? Unable to get off the loop Designed to fail? Being pigeon holed and shoved into the wrong box?

I do understand how the wealthy are allowing this to happen to us…

They themselves have bought into this narrative…

This narrative that allows prejudicial favoritism for the Ableist while not recognizing where they got their Ableism feeds the beast.

You see it when you see someone with a billionaire status on Forbes magazine being described as self made… The egos this creates perpetuates this vicious cycle…

We are essentially killing off our own species by allowing some to have such access to excess and preventing the evolving of others by deprivation and lack of appropriate allocation of resources for all.

From a human evolutional standpoint, at a biological level, we have the desire for our families to succeed and our family lineage to advance. I believe that greed is a perversion of our instincts and that by reclassifying how we see each other as a them versus us and re-defining this into the WE the human species may be able to survive. We are after all genetically related, we are 30th to 50th cousins

They have so much and we don’t even get to raise our own children and then we get branded as bad parents for what happens to children when they are not raised by their parents…

People need to make the changes for themselves but people learn by observation. We all crave autonomy and purpose, but most of us buy hook line and sinker into what the rest of society tells us. about ourselves, whom and what our purpose is and who we are

As a child that was in many hospitals I learned routine just to go home to not have it. Why did I not have it? Single mother that had to play father and mother. Wow was she strong! What I wouldn’t do for that type of strength myself! Unfortunately I allowed Society to tell me some very bad things about myself and we as humans believe what people tell us about ourselves… So does everybody around us…

Let’s stop branding people by finding a way to let us raise our own children regulate ourselves, gain access to education, career training and teach us what we don’t know. We only know what we’ve been taught… This should not be punishable by a life of poverty for your family lineage… how is one to rise above this and still pay their bills?

If you don’t have the free time or

Access to education because you’re raising a family, paying the bills, meeting the needs and feeding into the machine of capitalism being marketed by the ultra rich with the use of brainwashing style advertisement you simply have no shot at elevating your life let alone saving for retirement. You’re too busy trapped in the rat race of false status. Just one accident that prevents you from being able to work, one expensive hospitalization and boom you’re homeless

Between the poverty plate and the poverty lifestyle rapid consumerism materialism and advertisements promoting false status for sale I don’t see how this hasn’t affected anybody that can not. make over 100 grand a year. Even 100 grand a year is starting to deregulate homes. Why? Capitalism and false status….

Isn’t there a way that we can find a cushion? The first five years before a child is in school seems much cheaper to allow a parent to be at home then to end up with a problem Society… Or at the very minimum we could find a way to obtain regulated child care for those that are unable to be a consistent care giver.

A dysregulation in feeding patterns a dysregulation in clothing patterns a dysregulation in sleeping patterns a dysregulation in even the simplest thing like wearing shoes or brushing your hair and then you have an adult that has the same struggles… Yet poverty brings dysregulation because we are being stretched too thin

So mom and dad have to go to work because they’re trying to provide a better life for you and they can’t guarantee that the caregiver is providing these regulations either… nobody loves you like your parents, your extended family and closest friends… We are shooting ourselves in the foot are we not?

The ability to stay home anymore during these critical formative years is not being accessed without great sacrifice and shame placed on the mother. Damned if she does damned if she don’t, go to work and provide and make sure that you have an equal say in the finances or stay at home and be told you’re lazy… yet we Moms carry-on and find ways to evolve despite explicit challenges placed against women and the never-ending Madonna whore self-inflicted and societal judgments contradicting the very strengths in which we persist and wage on with

We as a society have beliefs on what it means to be mentally ill, but mental illness. is just a series of nervous system instructions that can change. We simply all have nervous system instructions that need to be changed, we all have behavior modification that needs to be accessed and implemented in order to maximize family lineage evolution

What we actually have on our hand are adults and children that are survivors, they have learned how to adapt in their surroundings and survive. If we find a way to hone in on the gifts that someone may possibly access by paying careful attention to their passions we are elevating the entire family lineage thus the world.

Should we ever send specialist in human or AI form into these homes to treat entire families with education of what they don’t know and teach them how to Spotlight and highlight what they do know then they receive a series of neuron connections in the brain and it will make it easier for change that creates a chance at growth

Don’t get me wrong I’m not suggesting more forced assimilation, we all saw how that went down… we almost lost every Native American and there are very few left, we called them savages and they were the gentle ones, this land is theirs and yet we now legally own it based on legal principle designed by greed, we profit with false notions of status.

Let us allow people access to the education as this is the way that we humans learn and allow autonomy..

We are telling parents that there is something wrong with their extremely gifted children… something wrong with themselves, yet we are all survivors, there is a gift inside of all of us and we just need to spot it.

I still remember the first time I read about epigenetics and had to look it up. Mind blown I understood everything about my childhood and had a new quest begin in my life. To undo the damage, but now I understood where the damage came from and I wasn’t blaming myself or my beautiful family anymore.

Society is doing this to us… This social delusion hurts everybody, this false narrative of what status is is extremely destructive and creating delusion at every Socioeconomic bracket.

Extreme empathy and extreme systemizing, male and female brains, GIFTS! Not burdens! Neurodivergency, differences GIFTS only made challenging in a greedy world…

We could all use a little bit more regulation education training and free time to hone in on what could be our specialties. We are supposed to all have the right for the chance to pursue happiness. What exactly do we mean when we say this? What exactly do we mean when we say that we are all equal? After all It takes a lifetime to build an appropriate skill set… yet who is getting access to this?

I am curious about how much of this happened to families as a result of forced assimilation… favoring of capitalism, materialism, false status. It’s as if we are modern-day slaves with false smiles on our faces…

For just one example we have these accessible lines of these name brands pay five times the amount of what they call fast fashion (generic) which is a fraction of the cost and believe we are getting the same thing that the celebrity is getting… Those accessible lines are not made in America either and we are advertising for them for free…

NO NO NO that celebrity has a different fabric, somebody stitched that, not with a factory machine and not with child labor…

Give us fools theses accessible lines, accessible lines false status and trick us into advertising it on our body, convince us to work for peanuts and watch children suffer…

Do the rich have no shame or are they a part of the delusion and confirmation bias that puts them within an elite club that we are not invited to? This collective belief that those that have money must be smarter than, more deserving, for they are the chosen ones and self me…

Perhaps their bubble also needs popped? Perhaps it doesn’t matter which Socioeconomic bracket you came from you will still suffer with the human condition. One lesser-known phenomenon relative to human survival is our ability to self delude, it happens in a group collective manner known as social delusion… It is how we survive and adapt as a species by becoming a group collective… It’s really remarkable but it can also be quite damaging when the wrong people have all the influence

I’m not suggesting anybody share their expensive high-quality goods just that they stop fooling us with their watered down version and advertisements teaching this false status and creating mental illness and then shaking their fingers at us…

It is not them and us it is we! The sooner we figure that out the sooner we get back on the right track towards evolving as a species…

If somebody is going to use their advantage to make a profit than this profit or at least a portion of it should be going into making the world a better place not just a glamorous lifestyle that isn’t attainable or accessible to others

Allowing someone to be equal means that they actually have a chance to rise out of their situation… You cannot rise out of falsehood delusion and trickery…

I hope they enjoy their luxury while it last and I hope they don’t end up on the wrong side of history…

Its time for people to start acknowledging when they got lucky, wealth makes wealth! Beauty and talent create influence. Incredible intellect creates opportunity. Again only if you are in the right environment to utilize these things. You are not self-made you are a lucky lucky individual that was given the opportunity to use what you had to become who you are… The moment that we start to recognize this is the moment we pop our bubbles of delusion

We need to share unless we want our legacy to be that of the modern day slaver.. This is modern day slavery. One day we will see that’s what this period was.. But only if we survive this, a species that cannot even share with its own will not survive…

Of course I’m pipe dreaming now, some. people can’t even pay for lunch for each other without squabbling, we are ALL equally diluted…

How exactly do we expect to break the devolution capitalism has created for us all… Nobody is better than anybody else, some of us just got more lucky. We are hindering and preventing the evolution of our species with this greed.

I understand that not everybody can pop their own bubble, not everybody has the intellect or the type of brain to see the reality of delusion at grand proportions that creates this particular type of Blindspot… But confirmation bias and an unwillingness to read between the lines is playing a major role in the inevitable demise of our species…

The day that we stop allowing the propagation of false status, false information in favor of advertisers dollars we will finally start to bend the needle away from this endless terrifying rise of flat Earthers major conspiracy theorist and Pink supremacist murdering our genetically related people over skin pigment and social injustice

In the end there are no elite amongst us, just various levels of luck. We are all a product of our environment and we have no choice as to which environment we were born to, only choices as an adult and for some of us we not only have never had a chance to pick our environment but we never will so long as we punish what is teachable so long as people are trapped in survival mode so long as we don’t allow equal access through opportunities that create autonomy and ablism in order for people to receive the necessary neuron. connections needed for self actualization and participation in this world

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