This was very helpful to me. To understand that your brief, and perhaps only emotional and not really factual, perceived setbacks feel worse than your forward progress of any type is really interesting. I will watch out for this, it is very damaging. I think being aware, knowing about the problem and watching for it, is a big bonus. Perhaps we take loss too seriously. Failure is not looked upon by everyone as a big deal. Some people in business for instance consider it a necessary step rather than evil. There will be failure, get over it. There will be setbacks, prepare. Keep moving. Sometimes the universe is testing your resolve. Kick its ass.