7 Reasons Why Life as a Millennial is Exhausting AF.

Bobbi Sez
Bobbi Sez
Aug 8, 2017 · 3 min read

The truth is, millennial-ism is contagious, spreads quickly, and can affect everyone. But somehow, the blame for this generation’s new way of life seems to fall on the backs of real millennials, and it can truly be exhausting.

1. You’re judged by the millennial reputation before you even open your mouth.

Lazy, bratty, entitled, rude, coddled, and narcissistic. Sorry, but since you’re a millennial, at least one of these ageist stereotypes might as well be taped to your forehead. I’m not saying it’s not accurate, but innocent until proven guilty, right?

2. Social Media is literally a part time job.

No mom and dad, social media isn’t really all that much of a choice. A big online following can yield big success these days, and upholding this following can definitely be exhausting. For example, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn are used for more than just connecting with friends. Networking isn’t what it used to be!

3. The unfollow is a low blow.

This cuts deep. Not only does this effect your follower ratio, but it’s personal. This person went out of their way to show that he/she doesn’t care about your life. We all know we have one of those apps that tells us exactly when we lose a follower. Now you realize that you are left with two options, God forbid you ever have to see this horrible person ever again. You can either act like it never happened and be super passive-aggressive, or, if you’re anything like me, you can avoid eye contact and all conversation ever again. “It’s my RBF, I’m fine! Everything’s fine.” And they wonder why millennials are so petty.

4. Believe it or not, I literally can’t.

Being passive-aggressive is actually a way of life. It’s how we all survive our Mondays, as well as any day filled with annoying coworkers and condescending elders. Ugh. Haters never seem to go away in the digital age, so a smile and a snarky comment once in a while is necessary to keep all of us from totally exploding.

5. “Millennials are the worst.”

Yes, you alone are the problem and the year you were born is something you can change. You, as a millennial, should be able to fix the personality and work ethic of every millennial that fits this stereotype. You find yourself working harder in order to erase the invisible stamp on the front of your resume.

6. You’re stuck somewhere between “too young to have your life together” and “too old to not”.

We get it. When they were our age, they were married with kids or pretty darn close to it. Instead, apparently all we’re good for is drowning in student debt and getting wine drunk on week nights. In reality, we’re doing everything we can to earn as much money as possible and live our best lives. We might look like a hot mess, but at least we’re still hot.

7. Your image is everything, and it follows you everywhere.

The image that you portray on any online profile is how old friends, future employers, and anyone else who views your profile is going to perceive you. High school really is forever when you still follow all your old classmates (even the ones you avoid eye contact with in public). How does one balance showing off his/her life to old friends, keep a professional profile for future employers, all while resisting the temptation to use social media as a place to post political opinions? Oh, and by the way, grandma just called to ask about your new boyfriend, because Facebook told her about it before you did.

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