Sorry, this sucks for you but I’m not going to feel bad about making fun of men and talking about how stupid and ugly they are because I’m allowed to be pissed. We are allowed to have conflicting interests and I’m allowed to be selfish this once. Even as a cis woman, yes, I am allowed to be furious with men and hate all of them for everything they have done to me and my friends as a class of people. If we are no longer allowed to critique and call out people who we conceive of as men because they might actually not be men, what the hell are we supposed to talk about? If you don’t speak up in these situations and make your case for yourself, I don’t know what you really expect from a bunch of people who are trained from birth to fear the set of people who look like men, or a bunch of people who are furious that they were taught from birth to automatically respect and essentially give their entire lives to men. Feminism is not about validating every individual’s internal sense of identity, its about ENDING THE SUBJUGATION OF WOMEN. “Misandry” culture, as you call it, is a cathartic, admittedly kind of stupid extension of that. As a woman you should understand that.