You can not help someone who doesn’t want help.
I know it’s frustrating. It’s like a terrifying Ferris wheel, where they keep going ’round and ’round, making the same mistakes over and over while you stand on the ground and watch, sucking in breath through your teeth and holding your tongue.
You can try to get through to them. You can let them know you care and you’re there when they’re ready but no one has ever truly stuck to what they needed to do to better their situation without coming to that conclusion on their own.
John at Boulder Bridges @ Ready to Work Employment
4747 Table Mesa Dr, Boulder, CO 80305