Live for experience
Imagine laying on your deathbed, alone with your thoughts. viewing your life as one single experience you now look at from an outter perspective as if you were to examine and relive a great night out , laying on your bed when you were younger…
At this moment you begin to make a reflection, you judge yourself and you start thinking of the things you could’ve done, the “what if’s” and the “i could of’s”
but it’s to late now, because when you were very young, you had the time, the energy, but not the money to do the things you dreamed of…
When you began to grow older, society showed you how the world worked and you focused on the money, because you were affraid of being average. so you were left with no time for those dreams you wanted to live…
then, when you grew old and finally got the money to have the basic needs society told you you needed to have,you made yourself believe you were doing great with the things you had because you think there is no way you could make those child dreams workout in the first place, you see you have met the requirements of being a normal human being and became statisfied untill that very moment, you lie on your deathbed, alone with your thoughts.
You view your life as one single experience and you look at it from an outter perspective as if you were to examine and relive a great night out when you were younger…
At this moment you begin to make a reflection, you judge yourself and you start thinking of the things you could’ve done, the “what if’s” This is the moment where you begin to think of life like if you were younger and had those big dreams. This is the moment you realize that you didn’t live your life to your fullest potential.
This is how ALOT of people live & die. Society slowly brainwashes you and your child dreams to a point where you make yourself believe that giving up on your dreams is a normal thing that happens to everybody.
I can insert all those famous quotes telling you to live your life like the one in the picture above, but that would not make this article more valuable than the statement itself.
To change and live for the experience, no matter if they’re good or bad, to live in the moment and look at even the most negative experiences as something good, you will need to rewire your brain, unteach everything you have learned, change your mindset, your point of view. Maybe you already started your way on this path? the ones that did knew it before i mentionned. Ofcourse this isn’t something that happens overnight but you can see this moment as a sign, as an oppertunity i give you to burst out of that bubble of statisfaction. A boost of motivation that will refresh itself every day if you do as i say.
Tell me, if the whole world was watching every second of your life and you knew it, would you do it any different from now on? I don’t care what your answer is, but my point is that the opinion of no matter how many people does not compare to the value of the opinion you give yourself at the moment you lay on that deathbed.
I want you to read this article again and feel yourself burst out of that bubble, and when you do, i want you to take pen & paper and write down your biggest dreams with this feeling as it’s fuel, you will read this paper to yourself everyday to remind you why you’re here, and this list will become bigger the more you are aware of this bubble burst concept.
You will begin rewiring your brain and create a diffirent mindset towards life, you want to take chances and risks, you want to live for the experience.
Cut the ropes of relations that no longer serve, make your own path and you will find people crossing it, don’t get stuck on their path either because you will only delay yourself.
become the greatest version of yourself and don’t you ever look back, not because it’s “the past” but because you will have plenty of time enjoying it when your ride is done.