It’s okay. I lost my Mom about three weeks ago and so many awesome people in my life have told me that they were scared they would say the wrong thing or they avoided me because they were nervous. This has made me laugh out loud at times. Literally anything comforting any of my friends have said or done has been appreciated. Perfection not necessary. Also, I am pretty sure I am going to be going through grief for a long, long time and it will come up in waves and in unexpected waves. So, if someone wrote me a message or brought me flowers in three months or three years, I wouldn’t mind. So, have no fear and write those notes!