This insight from you was helpful. The fact I’m willing to participate in the experience at all may be all she needs; she may not even desire for the same sort of FF interaction than the M would like in an MFF.
Now, I’m not overly sensitive to incidental touching; for example giving her both horns and having the jewels touch. But any directed MM touching seems to me it would be a total mood killer for me.
Anyways, interesting thoughts. Thanks!