Learning who to love and why.

Love is a complicated word to figure out. You may search for the true meaning of love inside everyone around you and still never find the meaning that helps you understand. That’s because people love differently. Some people look as love as just a night away from the bordem of the lonely nights they have created. Some people look at live as the addiction that keeps them from commiting that suicide that is rolling around in their brain. To me it’s all about the perspective of other people that draws the love map for me. The treasure is hidden inside everyone who seeks love. What is love though? Is it making sure that your beautiful girlfriend eats because you know that after a long night she just may be hungry? Is it making a fool out of your self so you can later feel the compassion after you both have that discussion of what you should have done instead of doing. Is it making sure that your partner is pleased over yourself just to allow her to know. Hey! I care about your feeling just as much as I do mine and damn you deserve this. At times I didn’t know what love was until I started seeking love from new and open perspectives. People just don’t love the way you do or I do or we do. One person may find love in the touch of a person while another may feel it through endearing words. That’s why it’s important to get to know a person from the inside out because doing it from the outside in doesn’t really allow you to “love” them like they need to be loved. It only allows you to love like you want which in my opinion is pretty fucking selfish. So how do you live your partner like they want but receive the same in return? You find that happy medium that allows both people time to receive what it is they need. I recently was reunited with a really good friend of mine. After speaking to her I realized that she was a bit frustrated with the decisions she had made. Instead of attempting to talk to her fully and pay attention in detail to everything that she was saying, my focus became on another thing which was what I wanted to talk about. If you listen to a person or woman in my situation, they will tell you how to love them. They will send you those signs that will allow you to pull ever so slightly on the heart strings that will tune everything up for the both of you. So who do you love and who do you stay away from? That is only a question that you can answer and be accountable for. Just listen to everything that comes from a person’s mouth, body language, and most of all daily routine. Once you understand what a person enjoys doing on the regular you get to attend their daily life. If it’s not something you are into then you have two options. One, you can try it out with that person and see if it fits you. Or option two. You can move on with the love portion and simply be that persons friend. The decisions you make and choices you run with will ultimately help you develop that true sense of love. Here’s the catch. It will be from the other person’s truth and views about live and not only from your perspective. Hope this helps someone like she helped me. Peace and love. Positive vibes only.