PinnedWhy a Podcast on Death?A personal essay and film — A few years ago I started a podcast about death. It ran for 66 shows. “Why death?” you might ask. The reasons are complex and multifaceted. Getting to the bottom of why took some doing, and what I learned, rather, what I am still learning, became precious to me. In…Death5 min read
3 days agoMember-onlyOne, 12, or Millions? — Dance Past SunsetThe fact that many a man who goes his own way ends in ruin means nothing to one who has a vocation. He must obey his own law. Anyone with a vocation hears the voice of the inner man. He is called. Carl Gustaf Jung *** How many social media…Facebook3 min read
Jul 14Member-onlyI Held Up a Super Walmart — Dance Past SunsetI awoke this morning to discover I mismanaged putting away one of my contact lenses. There it lay, shriveled and dry as a potato chip, glued to the side of my lens case. …Gun Control5 min read
Jul 10Member-onlyI Am a Racist — Dance Past SunsetTravel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one’s lifetime. Mark Twain I often hear nowadays, people being…Racism3 min read
Jul 9Member-onlyMy One Week Flirt with HomosexualityIntroduction In 2022, the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH) released an extensive “standards of care” document used by medical and insurance professionals to guide decisions they make on behalf of their patients and clients. Clinicians are divided over the guideline’s cautious stance on teens. In recent years there has…LGBTQ7 min read
Jul 1Duality and WonderCan two opposing ideas both be true? I loved my mom and have plenty of good things to say about her, which I have done in my book Blue Skyways and elsewhere. She passed away on Thanksgiving Day, 2019 at the age of 94. I miss her dearly. But mom…Philosophy4 min read
Published in An Idea (by Ingenious Piece)·Jun 24Member-onlyMy Grandfather’s TypewriterThe indelible marks we carry into love My eldest daughter has it now, a black, oily hulk of steel and ink — a piece of history, a relic, a machine from a time past, before computers, before Facebook, before digital. …Romance3 min read
May 17Member-onlyHow to Make Your Own Talking HeadstoneThe story of how three deaths led to an invention The last time I saw my brother was on a boat in the middle of the Severn River near Annapolis, Maryland. It was summer 1992, and the family had gathered to spread his ashes. John had died from AIDS a…5 min read
May 13The Bizarre Tale of the Doctor, the Salesman, and Hitler’s FartsAn IBM Story — “And that is why we are all breathing Hitler’s farts,” the man said, squinting down the length of his cue stick. “Eightball in the corner pocket.” Wack! And the game was over. The doctor and I ended our bizarre discussion about recycled dinosaur pee, the earth’s jetstream, and most unexpectedly…Humility4 min read
May 13Member-onlyWhen the Oak Tree FallsA Love Story — She reached out and touched his hand, the way she always did at this time of day when the afternoon shadows grew long and smoky and warm. He continued to read, but she knew, almost as if she could feel it through her hands, that he loved her touch. There…Death2 min read