I think the problem with your statement is that you’re contradicting yourself when you say that women are equal to men and then saying women are too concerned about their vaginas and “many” are not up to the task of taking what they want by “acting like a man”. There is a whole additional nuanced conversation about what that means that i don’t think i need to get into here.
Being a woman does not preclude you from also being sexist/biased on this subject.
I am happy for you that you have found success and never felt any discrimination due to your sex. I have built a nice career for myself as well without any issues. However, all you have to do is look at the statistics to come to the very logical conclusion that either there is something wrong with most women or something’s wrong with the system.
If you believe the former, then we have our answer.