breesaysAnniversary / UnbecomingAnniversaries are pretty good cause for reflection, I’d say, but every year I feel totally different. Or AM totally different? To give…3d ago3d ago
breesaysBlacking out my boundariesThere are moments in your life you expect to split into neat before-and-after blocks of time. Before high school, after high school. Before…Sep 5Sep 5
breesaysI am not a sociopathI’ve been on a memoir kick — because I’m writing one — and I just finished one where maybe I did a little more highlighting than I was…Jun 7Jun 7
breesaysIAD 2024This is technically (and boy do I love technical details!) my third IAD. I passed the deadline, but yes, I thought about it all day.Apr 7Apr 7
breesaysPermission to not careI am 60k words into writing this memoir, this collection of ace-relationship essays, and I’m snagging on something.Mar 17Mar 17
breesaysHappy little fractionsAbout a month ago I finished reading a memoir that jumped around a bit, which I was annoyed by, which prompted me to get my timelines in…Feb 4Feb 4
breesaysConfront all of your pain like a gift under the treeIt takes a lot of energy to keep it together. I had so much fun at Emo Nite on Friday, celebrating my birthday (early) with my best friend…Dec 4, 20231Dec 4, 20231
breesaysHow to mourn a total dickheadThe short version of this story (and believe me, there is a long one — but for that, you’ll have to wait for the book) is that my first…Dec 1, 2023Dec 1, 2023