breesaysIAD 2024This is technically (and boy do I love technical details!) my third IAD. I passed the deadline, but yes, I thought about it all day.2 min read·Apr 7, 2024----
breesaysPermission to not careI am 60k words into writing this memoir, this collection of ace-relationship essays, and I’m snagging on something.8 min read·Mar 17, 2024----
breesaysHappy little fractionsAbout a month ago I finished reading a memoir that jumped around a bit, which I was annoyed by, which prompted me to get my timelines in…2 min read·Feb 4, 2024----
breesaysConfront all of your pain like a gift under the treeIt takes a lot of energy to keep it together. I had so much fun at Emo Nite on Friday, celebrating my birthday (early) with my best friend…3 min read·Dec 4, 2023--1--1
breesaysHow to mourn a total dickheadThe short version of this story (and believe me, there is a long one — but for that, you’ll have to wait for the book) is that my first…4 min read·Dec 1, 2023----
breesayscry a little, cry a lotI’m still so stupidly sad. I feel like a layer of my skin has been peeled off and now I’m too sensitive to everything — music, silence…3 min read·Nov 27, 2023----
breesaysrest in peace, my bad museSometimes, instead of starting a new chapter or working on a new blog, I’ll go back into a draft to add details. Or edit. Last night, I…4 min read·Nov 26, 2023----
breesaysAn Ace Perspective on No Hard FeelingsI saw a lot of hubbub in the Ace community when the trailer for Jennifer Lawrence’s No Hard Feelings came out. Most of the community was…2 min read·Nov 25, 2023----
breesaysAce Week 2023For me, the funny think about identifying as ace is, as long as no one is harping on it, I don’t think about it very much. It’s a…3 min read·Oct 29, 2023----
breesaysHow many times do I have to say noIf I’m being honest, my stomach did a flip — and not in a good way. I thought you were going to tell me you found someone — maybe at the…2 min read·Oct 15, 2023----