Better Than Sex

R. Kelly said best. When a woman love’s, she loves for real. Through thick, thin, good, bad, happy, or sad; she’ll be there. She may get mad she may fuss & cuss. But the only way you can tell that she loves you for real and care for you is when she gets mad at you or you aggravate her. It’s different when she no longer gives a damn and then everything is happy go lucky when something happens cause that means she no longer cares. If you have a good woman no matter the circumstances. if she gets mad about something, or if she just simply stop talking to you it only means “baby, I love you. I want to spend some time with you. I don’t want to just text and talk all the time, I want to spend some QT just chill or do something fun just the two of us.” Buying her things all the time won’t keep her warm at night. say something sweet to warm her or make her smile guaranteed way for her to forget that she was ever cold. When she around the house or she say she’s bored that means “Baby, let’s go somewhere or hang out.” She says something about her body it just means she want you to compliment her on her body or for you to call her beautiful. She says “Text me” it’s just means “Call me” even if she just left from with you she wants to hear your voice. She says she wants to go out of town that just means “Hey, I want to spend time with you away from here away from our families and our friends some place where both of us would be excited about something we’ve never seen.”

Sexual things don’t fulfill her to the point she can’t go without your loving. She seeks your heart not your little friend. Your little friend isn’t going to keep her. Trust me. Just because you throw your lil partner at her it doesn’t mean that she’s going to want it all the time. Just cause you may be a sexaholic doesn’t mean that that she wants to have sex like rabbits all the time. That doesn’t show her you love her. That’s just something that’s a bonus in a relationship. Simple kisses, gentle hugs, holding her, staring in her eyes, etc. that’s better than anything you can ever buy or put in her. If she says don’t talk to me ever again. It just means she want you to bother her and make her laugh. If she’s quiet she’s usually in deep thought. You can tell a woman from a lil girl because she not just doing things for the hell of it. She knows exactly what she’s doing. She wears something tight or just has on gym clothes she wants you to compliment her even at her worse or tell her what color you like to see her in. She likes simple adorable things. Buying stuff spur or the moment not because it’s her birthday, Valentine’s Day, Christmas, or a special event, makes her day brighter and lets her know that you were thinking of her. Surprise her with things don’t make every move predictable. She learns your routine very well and she knows what you going to do next and that makes your relationship boring. She likes for you to call in the middle of the day just because. She likes for you to show up places just to see her even if it’s for 10 minutes. She likes when you play like you didn’t really know things and smile about it reassuring her that you know. She likes for you to protect her and show concern. She likes for you to play at being jealous. It’s so cute. She likes weird things.

If she kisses you and laugh and talk between kisses she love you and she’s comfortable with you she’s a keeper. If she wants you to go out to the club with her she just want to have her man accompany her to somewhere. If you can talk to her about anything even if it makes her mad she won’t tell you because she wants you to be able to vent and say anything to her with her support because she wants to be able to tell her friends “OMG he’s just so amazing.” She wants to be able to have diverse conversations with you. It makes her feel good when she hears your boys telling her that you talk about her in positive light. She wants her sex game to be between the both of you and nobody else. She likes to brag to her girls that you’re so outstanding and handsome. She doesn’t care what anyone else thinks because she sees you and only you. Buttttt… all of this is being said by a WOMAN! And when a WOMAN, not a girl, chick, b.tch, etc., hence the emphasis on WOMAN; when a WOMAN loves, she loves FOR REAL!

There are 3 types of female.

Gold-digger.

Keeper.

Hoe.

It’s your choice to pick which of these you have!