Good Man’s Worth

First, I commend every MAN for being a MAN. “Why you say that, B?” Well, without men there is no reproduction going on. There’s no men making MEN. There’s no MEN making us (women).. Wait! Hold up ! Catch my empasis on the word MAN/MEN. See, us as females don’t give men credit where credit is due. We don’t take the time with our man and some of us only see $$$ when it comes to them. I’ll tell you this: The power of a woman can be DANGEROUS for a man if he’s not careful. Woman, you have to own up to the mistakes you’ve made and also acknowledge the things that he’s doing. Putting him down making him feel like he’s not worth it. When you undersand my emphasis on the word man in the begining of this paragraph then you know what I mean when I say: if he says he loves you and he’s showing it, all you have to do is be a WOMAN about yours. Notice I didn’t use the word girl, female, chick, or bxtch (as some stupidly self-proclaim) in the last sentence because when you’re a woman you put aways childish ways. Snapping about every lil thing; bxtching & moaning about stuff that don’t even matter. Good women, real women, have to show these girls what it is to have a MAN not a lil boy! And, LADIES please understand.. EVERYBODY BUSINESS IS NOT YOUR BUSINESS JUST LIKE YOUR BUSINESS IS NOT THEIR BUSINESS. ESPECIALLY, when you’re in a relationship. EVERYBODY do not need to know your sexual experience (quick way for the next chick to try and step in your yard); how your relationship going (if the next trick tryna snake, you giving them ammunition); DON’T take your friends, promiscuous cousins/family, single friends/family, around your man (quick way for her to get snatched in my book cause its bound to happen). — Mama’s we have a lot more to discuss but this right here is about OUR MENN (:

MEEEEEENNNNNNN (: ❤

First off, I love y’all. Y’all are younique! See, what I admire about y’all, you try to put on this front like y’all don’t love us and don’t care about us when something goes wrong knowing its an act, but I’ll tell you where you mess up.

When you with your lady that you LOVE and something just happens to not be going right between y’all WOA (word of advice) don’t go talking to the next chick. When your lady finds out about it, don’t expect her to be cool with it cause for one, that’s like allowing the other chick to be apart of y’all relationship, a relationship is a TWOsome not a HIM & HER, her, her, her, her, & HER type thing. Women like for you to show her how you feel it speaks VOLUMES over a text. Write her a letter do something out of the ordinary, randomly to keep her on her toes. If something just not working right & you want to be with her, talk to her, show her you care. From then on don’t have everybody in your business.

*COUGH, COUGH* Y’all really ought to not let every chick slide down your pole. I mean I understand that y’all have that urge, I mean we all do, but ummm WOA, every chick ain’t clean no matter how she looks. She not gonna respect you as a man if you just pounding her cause when/if y’all get in a relationship and if she HOE’n around now with you and ya homeboys then she gonna hoe around when y’all in a relationship. Let’s give her the benefit of doubt if she not sleeping with everybody, she might be cool but still if you giving it to her before a relationship she not gonna act right in a relationship. Don’t give her nothing to just sit around and talk about with her friends cause as soon as you mess up, especially if you’re not in a relationship, she gonna talk about you like a dog.

Stop letting these female suck all your money outta you. Women, stop looking like that cause you know some of us can be gold-diggers. Saying “oh he spending money on me,” that ish not cute. I can see if he doing it just because but stop expecting it. MEN, be a man in the relationship. Love her but don’t be stupid. When she start expecting money then you’re being stupid. Y’all have to know where to draw the line. When we give you our all we EXPECT you to give us your all also thats the only thing we expect. Don’t be inconsistent with what you say or do. Don’t say you love us or whatever one minute then the next week things are different. Don’t let distance define your love for her cause if she willing to be there, she’s there, point blank. Can’t go around spreading your love/seeds to everybody though cause if you know the power of the… US you know that it’s dangerous if you not careful.

Y’all are worth much more than your exterior. Y’all are much more than what you have in your pocket. Don’t sell yourself short. Stop becoming a DOG when you know you’re a Good Man. Your worth is beyond the greatest imagination. We don’t give y’all much credit but I really applaud those of you who are Good Men and even when something goes wrong in y’all relationships, career, schooling, & etc. y’all try to stick by it. As good women, we have to stick by y’all and there aren’t many who will stick by you i’ll tell you that right now. Y’all have to stop making the mistake of A) trying to turn a hoe into a housewife cause NEWSFLASH: SHE’S A HOE no matter what outfit she put on; B) stop letting your good woman go because something goes wrong. Try to fix it, it isn’t rocket science. If she a GOOD WOMAN she’ll stick by her man; C) stop trying to find the easy way out on things too (ie. relationships, getting money, etc.) if you a good man you know its not even you; D) guard your hearts til the right one come along because once you give your heart it doesn’t come back the same if she gives you it back. ❤;

Man, I love y’all. Stop selling yourself short and if you have a good woman treat her as such. Stop messing around with these chickenheads and trying to make them wifeyy! Good men are hard to come by and for those of you who are left of the few stay true to yourself. And when you love, and she loves you, love her with your whole heart. Mwahhh! (: